Monday, April 16, 2007

Love or Responsibilities?

Love or Responsibilities?

Read carefully love and responsibilities. No.. it's love OR responsibilities.
When someone in love for too long with unstable relationship, yet broke off several times but end up re-attached back. After together, still non-stop with arguing, fighting, affair and etc... mess up your own life. We indeed human being, sometimes falling in between love or responsibilies and non-judgemental enough to know exactly what we want. Don't you?

Are we lost? or Are we hate? Of course many factors to be considered. With messy relationships, when toegther everytimes, some of them only think to how to give best answer to leave. At a point when the other choose to leave, you're crying out at home alone helplessly pray he/she will return. So much in our heart, as messy as in living physical environment. Caused we can't let go the relationships built by time and simply let it melt by a word. All because we have love, we have hate, we jealously enough, greed of more, give more than return, etc. if you continue to have such a feeling, whatever relationship you have currently or going to, would not workout pretty good.

Put aside everything, and focus of what you want? we can never change others but change could begin from ourself. If we bring out everything to discuss, let to have mutual understanding between both of you and let it go of all your hate, jealousy and other negative thought, you will find yourself happy day to day. Don;t make an assupmtion and conclusion always that he/she is wrong and you always right. Don't ever make comparison between your partner with another or you will go your living all the way down with this comparison and get you never satisfied.

IF you think can't be together then leave it and if you still love it, then move on with your love. Seperate your love and responsibilies. With someone that you no longer love, you will suffer more deeper in your heart than you know your reality. But attempt to your situation.

With some one that you responsibility at; is same as you workout empty love alone. Between light or dark, day or night, all is in your hand.

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