Sunday, May 13, 2007

Self Fish

I guess everyone of us had been met some one who very self fish in the way only put him/her self first and the rest of their freind and even family as second. I admit that everyone has self fish, but not at the obvious stage where peoples surrounding are trying ignored us.

Let list the situations:
- This person will ask u to buy something for him/her to eat, but when you did, he/she never appreciate you. Ask you bring it over to him/her and complaint the food you bought cannot eat and why you buy this and that.
- Ask you to fetch him/her to any where like you're the driver. Not considerate of others time or destination of your freind to go.
- When you need help, this people hide and went missing. Give you thousand and one reasons to push you.
- Only go to the place, eat and everything that he/she wanted to go or do, and others has to just follow.
- Cannot accept the criticsm at all.
- Never admit wrong and when facts and proof he/she did wrong, he/she in a way bring up other topics and issue to push you back and end up...who fault? YOU.
- When come to argument, this person can go out and have fun with others. even sometimes in front of you. This people when confronted, they will tell you make him/her not happy; that why need someone who care them better. In others words, if this person not happy whether your fault or not, he/she can take oppurtunity to have fun outside. And what, you kept silent.
- If he/she is your patner, today broke off, tomorrow already start new relationship. No hurt at all.

I couldn't list each of this characters, perhaps, you might seen even worst situation. At all cost, don't let this ppl win and over control all situation. This people weakness is afraid of you have his/her facts. Beware, for the sake of the face, they would alter the fact and turn back you're wrong. whatever you do, just cautious. Think before act.

Don't let this people caused you day and night suffer of their actions. Don't mix too much with this people and keep silent at any situation and less answers the questions they asked. what ever they want to said, let it be. This ppl very fast give up. Don't let this bother your beautiful life.

2 comments:

Joez said...

Haha, i know exactly who u're referring to - 'Champion' !!
Well, i think our Tan Sri really blinded by Champion...only when he falls into deep shit and no return, maybe then only Tan Sri can wake up...I only have two words for Tan Sri --> God Bless!

Chris M. said...

As long as he happy... we need to support him... :P